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Author Archives: Cinnie Noble

The Conflict Groan

Lots of things happen during the course of a dispute that may raise an internal groan in us. It may be because we say something we immediately regret; we hear a truth we hate to face; we observe a look … Continue reading

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Simmering signs

Over the years of interacting as a child in our families of origin and schools and then as an adult in our work and relationships, we develop views about the sorts of things that are acceptable and unacceptable actions, words, … Continue reading

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Your conflict shadow

It is common when we are in conflict that different parts of us emerge. Some are familiar to us and some parts we do not recognize. Some parts reflect what we think is appropriate for the situation. Some are the … Continue reading

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ADRHub Virtual Book Club – Conflict Management Coaching: The CINERGY Model

I am very excited to tell you that Jeff Thompson  one of the co- creators of ADRHub.com Werner Institute –  has kindly invited me to co-lead a virtual book club on my book:  Conflict Management Coaching: The CINERGY™ Model.  Below … Continue reading

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Thinking about whether to raise the issue

Not all of us know when, whether or how to be proactive and raise a conflictual issue with a person with whom we have an inner conflict. It’s a tough call at times and it takes some self-reflection to consider … Continue reading

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