Author Archives: Cinnie Noble
Fear of Conflict
One reason we avoid conflict is due to fears we are experiencing. Examples are the fear of losing things we value such as face, control, the relationship, self-respect, our reputation, hard won success, and something else important to us. We … Continue reading
Clarity is Charity
Some of us are more charitable than others when we consider the many ways we have to give to one another, to share, to support, to help and so on. Being clear and asking for clarity when in conflict are … Continue reading
Forgiveability
Some things that people say and do in our interpersonal disputes are unforgiveable. Some words and actions, however, are forgivable, but sometimes we act as though they are unforgiveable. Not distinguishing between what constitutes an egregious act can harm us … Continue reading
Irreconcilable Differences
The expression ‘irreconcilable differences’ is often referred to about marriages or other relationships that appear to be doomed for failure due to the differences that are apparent. It begs the question whether it is feasible to mend things at these … Continue reading
Temper Tantrums
Temper tantrums are usually associated with children, but I expect many of us have witnessed adults display conduct that could be easily likened to an infantile outburst. This sort of behaviour is often associated with not getting our own way … Continue reading
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