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Author Archives: Cinnie Noble

Learning from Conflict

Conventional wisdom tells us there is something to be learned from our conflicts. In the heat of disagreements though, it seems that the lessons are not very clear. We may tend to lose our ‘cool’ along with the wherewithal to … Continue reading

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Conflict is Expensive

The expense of conflict is the high price we pay for challenging people near and dear to us. It is the loss we experience in inner peace for taking our differences to places they don’t belong. It is the amount … Continue reading

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Necessary Anger

Some situations are infuriating. We become angry at the other person, even when it’s the circumstances that upset us. We may have trouble separating the person from the problem at these times though sometimes, of course, she or he is … Continue reading

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Fear of Conflict

One reason we avoid conflict is due to fears we are experiencing. Examples are the fear of losing things we value such as face, control,  the relationship, self-respect, our reputation, hard won success, and something else important to us. We … Continue reading

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Clarity is Charity

Some of us are more charitable than others when we consider the many ways we have to give to one another, to share, to support, to help and so on. Being clear and asking for clarity when in conflict are … Continue reading

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