When interpersonal conflict is difficult on us we may show we are beleaguered, hurt and let down in various ways. At some undefined point those who see or hear us might say we are wearing our conflict feelings on our … Continue reading
When we seem to lack resilience after a conflict, some of the things we agonize about are what we said or did or didn’t say or do. And though we cannot change the past, we reside indefinitely in an unsettled … Continue reading
Some things that people do and say in conflict are difficult to forgive. Sometimes though, we deny forgiveness to our detriment. Doing so might even become a badge we wear and live by. It may even define us in ways … Continue reading
It seems when we stand up for ourselves when in conflict we can get puffed up with our rightness and righteousness. By doing so, we are making the other person wrong. However, she or he is also reacting with perceptions … Continue reading
Sometimes we have trouble bouncing back after a conflict. We ruminate about what we or the other person said or did, what we wished we had said or did, the uselessness we feel about what occurred and so on. We … Continue reading