Author Archives: Cinnie Noble
Getting Over Conflict
When we seem to lack resilience after a conflict, some of the things we agonize about are what we said or did or didn’t say or do. And though we cannot change the past, we reside indefinitely in an unsettled … Continue reading
Denying Forgiveness in Conflict
Some things that people do and say in conflict are difficult to forgive. Sometimes though, we deny forgiveness to our detriment. Doing so might even become a badge we wear and live by. It may even define us in ways … Continue reading
Being Right in Conflict
It seems when we stand up for ourselves when in conflict we can get puffed up with our rightness and righteousness. By doing so, we are making the other person wrong. However, she or he is also reacting with perceptions … Continue reading
Bouncing Back After Conflict
Sometimes we have trouble bouncing back after a conflict. We ruminate about what we or the other person said or did, what we wished we had said or did, the uselessness we feel about what occurred and so on. We … Continue reading
The Blame Game
Blaming the other person when we are in conflict is a game of folly. There is nothing to be gained except perhaps the temporary satisfaction of thinking we are not responsible for being part of the conflict. What part are … Continue reading
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