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Author Archives: Cinnie Noble

That Made My Blood Boil

Posted on January 28, 2014 by Cinnie Noble

Did you know that there was a belief that blood actually boils when people become angry or excited? We know that is not true and even has a sort of sci-fi feeling to it. However, that made my blood boil … Continue reading →

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“Woulda Coulda Shoulda”

Posted on January 21, 2014 by Cinnie Noble

The words “woulda coulda shoulda” often seem to be used in the aftermath of being in conflict when we are kicking ourselves for something we said or did or didn’t say or do. The following description provides a pertinent explanation: … Continue reading →

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Conflict Mastery Action Planning

Posted on January 14, 2014 by Cinnie Noble

When a conflict is over and we are experiencing ongoing thoughts about what we wished we had said or done, it is a good time to figure out what we learned that will help us going forward. Making an action … Continue reading →

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Collaborating in Conflict

Posted on January 7, 2014 by Cinnie Noble

When it comes to problem-solving during a conflict we seem to use different styles depending on a number of variables. These may include who the conflict is with, the nature of the issues, and whether the relationship or outcome are … Continue reading →

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Ten New Year’s Conflict Resolutions

Posted on December 31, 2013 by Cinnie Noble

Instead of a series of 10 questions, this week’s blog is a series of my Conflict Resolutions for 2014. This year, I will acknowledge how conflict presents an opportunity to enrich relationships. This year, I will make amends with people … Continue reading →

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