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Category Archives: Conflict Management Coaching

Bouncing Back After Conflict

Sometimes we have trouble bouncing back after a conflict. We ruminate about what we or the other person said or did, what we wished we had said or did, the uselessness we feel about what occurred and so on. We … Continue reading

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The Blame Game

Blaming the other person when we are in conflict is a game of folly. There is nothing to be gained except perhaps the temporary satisfaction of thinking we are not responsible for being part of the conflict. What part are … Continue reading

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Taking the ‘High Road’

It sometimes happens when in conflict that our journey takes us up the ‘high road’. While it works at times to deflect the interaction, this route can be perceived as patronizing. In those cases being on a ‘high road’ may … Continue reading

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Developing New Conflict Habits

Until we learn new conflict habits to replace our destructive ones, we will miss the chance to get what we need – and what the other person needs – to live and work compatibly and in peace. Identifying which of … Continue reading

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Careful Conflict

Sometimes we react to a perceived offence without considering that the other person’s intention may not be what we think. Rather, we attribute negative motives and respond impulsively. We are careless and it appears we could care less. If you … Continue reading

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