Yes, interpersonal conflict can take a lot out of us and even threaten the relationship. Once our energy and good faith gets depleted at these times, the way back seems plodding and often hopeless. We lose the notion that there’s … Continue reading
Many of us have “best” practices we use when in conflict – at least, they seem to be the best at the time. However, we realize that using approaches that are “tried and true” does not mean they will always … Continue reading
Though we talk about the importance of listening when in conflict, many of us turn the volume down and do not actually hear the words and sentiments being expressed. The strength of emotions behind what is being said often predominates … Continue reading
At times, we can become embroiled in our conflicts to a point that may be described as “over the top”. We appear obsessed with the injustice of the other person’s actions and we wear the related emotions on our sleeves. … Continue reading
The taste of the combined alloy of bitter and sweet commonly accompanies interpersonal disputes. There are bitter elements when the distaste we have caused or experienced upsets us indefinitely. The sweet elements include when we gain an understanding we didn’t … Continue reading