Author Archives: Cinnie Noble
Conflict Denial
Conflict is inevitable and pretending it doesn’t exist is not only denial. It is also an unrealistic view. That is, there is nothing to be gained by denying the existence of conflict and lots to be gained from accepting it … Continue reading
Creative Conflict
Using creative to qualify the word conflict does not resonate for many. It is challenging to be creative when our brains are on high alert due to challenges we often experience when in conflict. We may for instance perceive threats … Continue reading
Change the Conflict Frame
One thing that keeps us entrenched in our conflicts is remaining focused on what went wrong, what the other person said or did that is affecting us, and an ongoing need to justify our actions. These thoughts and feelings inform … Continue reading
Tenacious When in Conflict
Sometimes it is hard to give up the fight because we feel so certain about our view. Or, for some reason we just do not want the other person to get her or his way. When this happens we tend … Continue reading
Wearing Conflict on our Sleeves
When interpersonal conflict is difficult on us we may show we are beleaguered, hurt and let down in various ways. At some undefined point those who see or hear us might say we are wearing our conflict feelings on our … Continue reading
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