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Author Archives: Cinnie Noble

Suppressing Anger

When we are angry at another person due to a conflict it’s difficult to hold in what we are feeling. At these times our emotions may be displayed in ways that hurt the other person while also hurting the relationship. … Continue reading

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Liking Conflict

Tension and discord appear to excite some people who thrive on the energy it creates. That is, those who enjoy conflict do not usually see it as negative or destructive, and may view conflictual interactions as a chance to share … Continue reading

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It Takes Only One

When any of us begin to experience acrimony about something another person is saying or doing, the seeds of inner conflict begin to grow. Essentially, it takes only one of us to be in conflict, even if we are doing … Continue reading

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Letting Go

Some conflicts stay with us for long periods and prey on our minds and hearts in ways that are destructive. In these circumstances, we seem to have trouble letting go of our negative thoughts and feelings of blame, hurt, remorse … Continue reading

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The Magic of Conflict

It may seem counterintuitive to consider there is magic in conflict. However,  insights gained during conflict or on reflection carry their own type of magic. For instance, we often experience magical moments when we realize and face the actual crux … Continue reading

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