Author Archives: Cinnie Noble

Many of us are able to identify the types of behaviours, actions, attitudes, etc. that lead to conflict. However, the root of why certain ‘hot buttons’ provoke us is not always clear. As a consequence, we lack the wherewithal to … Continue reading →

One way some of us assert ourselves and our viewpoints is to put the other person down. We may, for instance, demean their actions, their character, their rationale and so on. Doing so does not elevate us to a powerful … Continue reading →

Whether or not we directly communicate to the other person when in conflict (or before or after it is evolving), it is usual that our bodies are conveying messages. The exact emotions and thoughts may not be directly expressed. However, … Continue reading →

At times the other person in our conflicts might try to make amends and we feel resistant. It may be because we need more than she or he says by way of apologizing. Or, it may be too long after … Continue reading →

Conflict can bring out the worst in us. We may get caught up in the negative dynamics and lose track of what we are fighting for and why. At these times we might step out of ourselves and observe in … Continue reading →