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Category Archives: Conflict Coaching

Necessary Conflict

We may not think the word ‘necessary’ is one that would qualify the word ‘conflict’. However, especially in our interdependent relationships, the importance of raising issues that are important to us – even if they conflict with the other person’s … Continue reading

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Conflict Resolutions for 2017

We at CINERGY® Coaching would like to wish you all the very best for 2017. May it be a peaceful, loving and joyful year for you and yours! This year I will remember we are all in this together. This … Continue reading

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Split Second Reaction

If you read the great book Blink by Malcolm Gladwell – or even if you didn’t – you will undoubtedly understand the concept of first impressions – whether they are immediate reactions to tastes, sounds, words and other stimuli. As … Continue reading

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“Lighten Up”

You may have heard someone say “lighten up” to you when you are upset in or about a conflict. At these times, the speaker is typically picking up our seriousness, intensity and/or negative feelings and seems to think telling us … Continue reading

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Planning for Plan B in Conflict

It helps in our efforts to become conflict masterful to be prepared when we anticipate conflict could erupt. This might occur for reasons such as when we know we have offended someone and that she or he has asked to … Continue reading

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