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Getting Defensive

Getting defensive when in conflict is an important signal – whether it is us or the other person. When we or the other person react defensively to something said or done we or they are defending something meaningful. We may, for instance, perceive a value, or need, or aspect of our identity is being undermined.

What are you and the other person defending in a conflict that is happening (or happened)?

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