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Category Archives: Conflict Coaching

Bringing Your Best Self to a Conflict

For this week’s blog I am bringing back one that was popular last year. So, this one is from the archives (originally posted November 14, 2017): I like this quote by Doris Lessing from The Golden Notebook: “There’s only one … Continue reading

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Conflict Assumptions

For this week’s blog I am bringing back one that was popular last year. So, this one is from the archives (originally posted May 2, 2017): When we are in conflict with another it is often the case that we … Continue reading

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Reflect, Reflect, Reflect

I find the optimal practice when coaching my clients through conflict is to facilitate their transition from reaction to reflection and only then, to consider the response that reflects how they want to “be” in their conflicts. This isn’t always … Continue reading

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If I Had To Do It Again…

Many of us revisit conflicts and other interactions in our heads – and sometimes many times – wishing we had the opportunity to do it again. Things we said and how we said them often haunt us. Try as we … Continue reading

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People-Pleasing

Would you call yourself a people-pleaser? If so, how does this lead to conflict in your life? If you are not a people-pleaser but find you get irritated with people who are, what specifically triggers you that results in conflict? … Continue reading

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