Author Archives: Cinnie Noble
Forgiveability
Some things that people say and do in our interpersonal disputes are unforgiveable. Some words and actions, however, are forgivable, but sometimes we act as though they are unforgiveable. Not distinguishing between what constitutes an egregious act can harm us … Continue reading
Irreconcilable Differences
The expression ‘irreconcilable differences’ is often referred to about marriages or other relationships that appear to be doomed for failure due to the differences that are apparent. It begs the question whether it is feasible to mend things at these … Continue reading
Temper Tantrums
Temper tantrums are usually associated with children, but I expect many of us have witnessed adults display conduct that could be easily likened to an infantile outburst. This sort of behaviour is often associated with not getting our own way … Continue reading
Being Thoughtful in Conflict
Since experiencing high emotions in conflict usually affects our ability to think clearly, we may attribute negative motives that are not based in reality. At these times it can be challenging to respond reflectively rather than react ineffectively. Being thoughtful … Continue reading
Getting Defensive
Getting defensive when in conflict is an important signal – whether it is us or the other person. When we or the other person react defensively to something said or done we or they are defending something meaningful. We may, … Continue reading
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