Author Archives: Cinnie Noble

After a conflict is ostensibly over, some of us tend to crave the connection we lost. The void that lingers seems to get emptier as we realize the disconnect is having a worse impact on us than the conflict itself. … Continue reading →

It is an understatement to say cursing is not a very useful way of communicating in conflict. Yet, the tendency to swear emerges for some of us in the heat of the moment and often with an intensity and decibel … Continue reading →

In the middle of a conflict we often lose our ability to think clearly. We say and do things that could only be considered uncaring and thoughtless. At times, our reactions seem to be mostly retaliatory and impulsive – though … Continue reading →

Sometimes we have an idea that we are reticent to share because we expect it will lead to a conflict. We may test it indirectly by making a suggestion in passing with hopes we won’t get push back. When our … Continue reading →

When what we want to express in a conflict comes out in a loud voice, chances are the words are not heard well. The intent gets lost amidst the noise and only the echo of the tone and decibel of … Continue reading →