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Author Archives: Cinnie Noble

YOU LIKELY PROVOKE OTHERS FROM TIME TO TIME, RIGHT?

I imagine we all do! However, we aren’t necessarily aware of how we do so until it’s too late. Though we are generally aware of the “hot buttons” for our family members and friends and those we come to know … Continue reading

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INTERRUPTING WHEN IN CONFLICT – A NO NO

It is common when we are in conflict, that as our emotions escalate, many of us tend to interrupt more and listen less. We might interrupt for many reasons, including that we want to get heard; we are strongly disagreeing … Continue reading

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THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM

As you likely know, when we use the metaphor – an elephant in the room – we mean there’s an obvious problem about which everyone in the room is fully aware but no one mentions. It may be an important … Continue reading

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THINKING ‘OUTSIDE OF THE BOX’ WHEN IN CONFLICT

The expression thinking ‘outside of the box’ typically relates to being creative about ideas – stepping outside of enclosed lines that are limiting and constrain thinking. When the concept comes up in the conflict management context, it occurs when people … Continue reading

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WHAT DO YOU LOOK LIKE WHEN IN CONFLICT?

It’s unlikely that we think about what we look like when we are in conflict or, how our body and facial language might contribute to the dynamics! On reflection – we may be able to describe what we think our … Continue reading

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