When we become provoked by something the other person says or does, we have a choice about how to respond. That is, even though our initial response may be to react adversely, we do not actually need to retaliate, blame … Continue reading
There are times we know we will encounter pushback, defensiveness, offensiveness and other negative reactions to issues we want to raise with another person. The mere idea of this can be daunting and preclude us from raising them. Or, if … Continue reading
Even though we might think a conflict has been resolved, there are times we (or the other person) have not really reconciled the matter. The vestiges can linger in strange ways and may show up at unusual times – brought … Continue reading
Interpersonal conflict has a way of overwhelming us – casting a large cloud that seems to encompass our every minute. Often we blow things out of proportion as we ruminate over what we said, what the other person said, what … Continue reading
Oh my goodness, another year has passed and I would like to wish you all the very best for 2018. May it be a peaceful, loving and joyful one for you and yours! Here are some conflict resolutions for 2018. I … Continue reading