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Category Archives: Conflict Management Coaching

SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY

This phrase is one I’ve heard or said as long as I can remember! And the words and its meaning reflect the crux and cause of many interpersonal disputes. There are various ways of processing the meaning of this phrase … Continue reading

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REGRETS REFLECT OUR VALUES

“If we know what we truly regret, we know what we truly value” Daniel Pink This quote really resonated for me as a conflict management coach and personally, too. I have found it’s common when my clients and I look … Continue reading

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DO YOU EXERCISE YOUR WISHBONE WHEN IT COMES TO CONFLICT?

“A person will sometimes devote all his life to the development of one part of his body – the wishbone.” Robert Frost Often in my conflict management coaching practice clients use the word ‘wish’. It might refer to what they … Continue reading

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INTERRUPTING WHEN IN CONFLICT- A NO NO

It is common when we are in conflict, that as our emotions escalate, many of us tend to interrupt more and listen less. We might interrupt for many reasons, including that we want to get heard; we are strongly disagreeing … Continue reading

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FEAR – THE CHEAPEST ROOM IN THE HOUSE

“Fear is the cheapest room in the house. I would like to see you living in better conditions” (Hafiz) I smile when I read this quote and think about it when I become fearful about my own relational conflicts (or … Continue reading

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