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Author Archives: Cinnie Noble

One Step at a Time After Conflict

One of the things I observe about some conflict management coaching clients is a tendency to try to resolve their disputes too quickly. I’ve done this myself and found that such attempts can often backfire. This is even if those … Continue reading

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Speaking the Truth When in Conflict

One of the reasons many of us back away from conflict or yield to the other person is because we fear our truth – the truth of what we have to say and are feeling – will hurt the other … Continue reading

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Being Unafraid to Feel

“The bravest thing you can do is be unafraid to feel”- Bridgett Devoue When we feel emotional about a conflict – hurt, anger, betrayal, disappointment, and so on – it is a clear sign that something important to us is … Continue reading

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Conflict Resolutions for 2021

Hello: Here are my conflict resolutions for 2021. I have repeated many from last year because, yet again, I still haven’t got them quite right. This year I will celebrate our differences. This year I will remain mindful that we … Continue reading

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The Conflict Iceberg

For this week I thought I would bring back a blog that was very popular a few years ago. So, this one is from the archives: The metaphor of an iceberg has commonly been used as a metaphor about conflict. … Continue reading

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