“The only thing blame does it to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration.” Wayne Dyer It seems we sometimes spend needless time in blame mode when we are … Continue reading
It’s somewhat counterintuitive to think and say we actually laugh at our interpersonal disputes! But, in my work as a conflict management coach, I have heard some clients who end up laughing – mostly at themselves – regarding their disputes. … Continue reading
“Like a dance, conflict escalation generally requires the participation of both parties.” Brian Mistler Like other quotes that speak to the notion that conflict sustains itself by our participation in them, I especially like this one because it refers to … Continue reading
“Know your worth. You must find the courage to leave the table if respect is no longer being served.” Tene Edwards I find this a poignant quote. There’s only so much any of us can or want to tolerate when … Continue reading
“When misunderstandings grow cut your ego.” Anonymous I imagine psychiatrists and other related professionals would dispute the idea that we as humans can be ego-less under any circumstances, including when it comes to being in conflict with others. Well, they … Continue reading