When we think about it, there are times we find fault with the other person for things we do. We may attribute motives that are not theirs to own. We may criticize behaviours and characteristics we demonstrate. It just may be, at these times, that we are projecting our stuff onto them.
In what ways are you blaming the other person – with whom you are in a conflict – for things you are doing?
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